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Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes… just be an illusion. 

A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy. 
George Jean Nathan

Oh, the world of love. So many times over your lifetime, you think you are in love, to find out that it is all an illusion. Someone once said that, “love is blind.” Maybe sometimes we overlook red flags when we are so caught up in the magic of love. I have had many disappointments in love, and my picking abilities have not been very good. How do we really know what love looks like? How do you find an everlasting love, that grows from day-to-day, and a love that enriches your life until you pass away? It seems to me, that it really boils down to selfishness. Instead of making your partner happy, and attempting everyday to love and serve them, we want to think about our own happiness and our own selfish desires.

True happiness in a relationship, comes from selfless love. Unconditional love may be the most difficult thing that we ever do in our lifetime. It takes a committment each day to think about serving your partner, and not expecting anything in return. That I believe, is unconditional love. I still believe that I can have committed love that lasts forever and I pray that God will show me how to be that type of person that gives and is not concerned with receiving. We live in a selfish world, and in the end, I want to be known as a giver. God, teach me how to love and how to be a giver!



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